|How to be a good wife to your husband|
honest with you he really didn't know. He had no clue. He just knew what he didn't want.
What he didn't want was a complaining, nagging, and unappreciated wife. Ha! Yep! I was all those things for many years. When I finally started to change and I felt like I had eliminated the nagging and being appreciative I wanted my husband to see it. I was still complaining at times, but the other things I was slowly removing from my life. So what changed? What made me be a good wife? Why was I the perfect wife now?
Marriagesare designed to get better with time. Every little and big thing you docontributes to your marriage growing.
Today I want to pray with you about how to be a good wife to your husband. It's not hard, I promise, but it does start with you.
I am human. I have fleshy desires. Sometimes I'm selfish and I can't put my husband needs before mines. But I'm asking in the ways I am slacking in being a good wife....I am asking you to increase in me. You see Lord I want my desires to be from you. I want you to lead me. Be in my thoughts. I'm not sure what a good wife is to my husband, but I know you know. So strengthen my mind so I can receive your thoughts. Strengthen my heart to allow it to remain in love with my husband and not hardened when he disrespects me. Strengthen my spirit sweet Father, so it over powers my flesh. I know I am capable of being a great wife to my husband. I know I am capable of being the wife he dreams about in his wildest dreams. Allow my husband to only have a desire for me and help me to only have a desire for him. I wan to love him past all the faults we have committed, past all the arguments we have performed in the past, and past all the pain we have forced on one another, because of our selfish ways. Lord I love this man. I want to be a perfect wife, a trophy wife, a good cook, I want to keep the house clean for him, I want to be a good mother to his children. The love I have for him, puts the desire in me to want to do all those things. But Lord if it's not your way, then I ask that only your will be done. Not mines, but yours.
In Jesus name,